Your privacy matters to us. This policy explains what information we collect, how we use it, and how you can protect yourself. We've kept it simple and honest.
The short version: We collect only what we need to run the platform. We don't sell your data. We recommend using an anonymous email.
1. What We Collect
When you use Sextext.me, we collect:
- Email address - For login only (we use magic links, no passwords)
- Post content - Your title, description, age, gender, and platform usernames (including phone numbers for Signal/WhatsApp - these are publicly visible)
- IP address - For security and moderation (kept for 30 days)
- Country - Detected from your IP for post display
- Preferences - Your content preferences (gender, orientation, platform filters) to personalize your feed. Stored only if you set them.
2. Payment Information
If you purchase credits using cryptocurrency, we collect limited payment data:
- Payment reference ID - A unique identifier for your transaction (stored permanently)
- Package details - The credits purchased and USD value
- Transaction status - Whether payment was completed
- Blockchain confirmation - Timestamp when confirmed
What we DON'T collect:
- Your wallet address (unless you provide it in a support request)
- Transaction hash (unless you provide it in a support request)
- Exchange account information
Payments are processed by a third-party crypto processor. We never have access to your cryptocurrency wallet or exchange credentials.
3. What We DON'T Collect
We specifically avoid collecting:
- Real names - We don't ask for them
- Browsing history - We don't track what you view
- Precise location - We only detect country from IP, not city or address
4. How We Use Your Data
We use the information we collect to:
- Display your post to other users
- Send you login links via email
- Prevent abuse (rate limiting, spam detection)
- Moderate content and enforce our terms
- Respond to legal requests when required
We never use your data for advertising or sell it to third parties.
5. Data Sharing
Public information: Your post content (title, description, usernames, age, gender, country) is publicly visible. That's the point of the platform.
Private information: Your email and IP address are never shared publicly.
Third parties: We don't sell or share your data with advertisers, marketers, or data brokers. Ever.
Law enforcement: We will cooperate with valid legal requests. If law enforcement contacts us with proper documentation, we will provide relevant information as required by law.
6. Your Rights
You have the right to:
- Delete your posts - Anytime, from your account
- Delete your account - Contact us and we'll remove everything
- Access your data - Ask us what we have stored about you
- Update your data - Delete and re-create posts, or contact us
For GDPR, CCPA, or other privacy rights requests, email us at [email protected].
7. Cookies & Tracking
We use minimal cookies - only what's necessary:
- Authentication cookies - To keep you logged in
- Cloudflare cookies - For security and performance
- Google Analytics - To understand how users interact with the site (anonymized, no personal data shared)
- Social login (Discord, X/Twitter) - When you use social login, we receive only your email and basic profile to create your account. We don't access your private messages or followers.
We do not use:
- Advertising or tracking cookies
- Social media tracking pixels
8. Data Retention
How long we keep your data:
- Posts: Until you delete them
- Account: Until you request deletion
- IP logs: 30 days (for moderation and security)
- Email: Until account deletion
Banned usernames may be retained indefinitely to prevent abuse.
9. Security
We take security seriously:
- HTTPS everywhere - All connections are encrypted
- No passwords - We use magic links, so there's nothing to steal
- Cloudflare protection - DDoS protection and security filtering
- Regular moderation - We actively monitor for abuse
10. Safety Tips for Sexting
Your safety is important to us. Here are some tips for staying safe when connecting with strangers online:
Protect Your Identity
- Use a burner email - Create a separate email just for this platform. Don't use your work or personal email.
- Use a separate username - Don't reuse usernames from other platforms where you use your real identity.
- Don't share personal details - Avoid sharing your real name, workplace, home address, or other identifying information.
Be Cautious
- Trust your instincts - If something feels off, it probably is. Block and move on.
- Watch for red flags - Requests for money, gift cards, or "verification" are almost always scams.
- Don't send compromising photos with your face - If you choose to share explicit content, consider keeping your face out of frame.
- Be wary of underage claims - If someone claims to be underage, stop all contact immediately and report them.
Take Control
- Block freely - Don't feel bad about blocking anyone who makes you uncomfortable.
- Report bad actors - Help keep the community safe by reporting violations.
- Remember: you're in control - You can stop any conversation at any time, for any reason.
Remember: Sexting should be fun and consensual for everyone involved. Stay safe out there.
11. Updates to This Policy
We may update this privacy policy from time to time. When we do, we'll update the "Last updated" date at the top.
For significant changes, we may notify users via email or a site announcement.
Contact Us
If you have questions about this privacy policy or want to exercise your rights:
- Email: [email protected]
We aim to respond to all privacy-related requests within 30 days.